Romantic Things

  The truth is, I don’t need your words anymore. I don’t need you to come to me every time we fight to tell me that you love me. You see, I don’t trust your words anymore. I don’t need them. I need consistency and actions. I need you to do the things that you told me you would do and I don’t want any excuses.  If I can make sacrifices for you, I want you to do the same for me. If you think that I am wrong, you can leave anytime you want. I just want you to know that I trusted people so many times before you and they betrayed me every single time. Even if I gave them all my heart, they threw it on the floor and stepped over it without any mercy. So, this time, I want it all to be different. This time, I want you to prove to me that you love me.  Don’t say you will help me with my work—come and help me. Don’t say that you will love me forever—show that to me by not choosing another girl instead of me. Don’t say you will never cheat on me—prove that by not letting another wo...

  Regardless of to what extent you have been together with someone, you can never learn everything about that ‘someone’ you love. When you are in a serious relationship with someone for quite some time, no matter if it’s a long-distance one, if you are happy and settled in that relationship, it once in a while feels as though you and your partner have talked about everything there is and know everything there is to know about each. I mean, all the long-term couples would agree with the fact that they have gone through a time where they literally feel like they have nothing to talk about. The couple has talked about their interests, hobbies, what they like and doesn’t like, they have definitely talked about their childhood, about their dreams, about how they want their future to be and the list goes on. But there still is a lot to know about each other, some essential stuff that a couple should go through. Now if you ever come across this nothing to talk about a point in your relati...

  From the very moment a girl enters a relationship herВ friends, colleagues and family start passing different remarks. Everyone is asking questions about her relationship and her significant other. Regardless of herВ relationship with her soul mate, there are many things that sheВ just can’t stand listening to. Here is a list of 15 things that a girl in a relationship just hates to listen to. 1.  You were more fun when you were single. I just hate to listen to this. Just because I’m not parting with you every other day you can’t blame me to be lame. I have my own personal life and you should give me that much space. It is Okay that you miss your old buddy or best friend. But don’t make her feel guilty for having someone essential in her life. Of course, she has to move on with life. She can’t be having the girl party all her life. She has to find her life partner to get settled in her life. If you are her real friend instead of nagging you should feel happy for her. 2. Why a...

  Yes, you love that person and he or she loves you back, as well, but you are afraid deep inside that there is a chance that things might not go as planned and they walk away. ‘Like’ and ‘feelings’ are the two words that pop into our minds when we hear the word relationship. It is all about the emotions of the love birds. The feelings of the two can change pretty quickly as the days pass, I mean, it must have happened to most of you in a relationship when you get up in the morning and you feel all happy and positive but by night you feel completely down. And not just down like you are tired or something, but you begin to experience a new kind of emotion and pain, something you’ve never experienced before. Now, we hear many people saying that relationships are all about moments of ecstasy and euphoria, and the level of happiness is unmatched, and yes, they are right about this but the problem is that they are not considering A LOT of other things that happen along with the good thi...

  Strong women are creatures who have endured a lot of challenging circumstances in their lives that have made them into who they are. They are not a byproduct of this society but are amazons who will not compromise their self-respect and self-esteem for menial things in life. They will be civilized and humane, don’t get me wrong, but when they think that things are not going accordingly, they will approach you to fix them, rather than just standing on the sidelines and letting everything melt in front of their eyes. They will be a source of inspiration and their moral strength will help keep the pillars of your relationship remain intact. Here are some things strong women do in a relationship that makes them stand out. 1. There comes a point in a relationship when distances start to grow and it is quite evident that the required vigor is lacking in the relationship. A strong woman will approach you and try to talk things out with you whenever she feels that is the case. She will s...

  Many of us have the wrong impression about what our partner says and what he/she does is the yardstick to measure the growth of a relationship. The fact is that it all depends on you, how happy or content you are from it. There are commonplace love problems that create skepticism in us about our relationships. The reality is that a number of these ordinary troubles are wholly normal. It all depends on becoming much more conscious of them and how to solve them. After that, we will begin to comprehend our own potential to make ourselves happy, concerning our relationship as well as our own self. 1. Marital Blahs The weather has an impact on the mood of the people. In winter, less exposure to sunshine and continuous rain dragging on for many days may cause depression-like symptoms. Some people keep framed pictures of flowers in their room or their desktop to remind them that the winter is temporary. Are you depressed about your married life? Is it stagnant? The feeling of love and c...

  Reality TV star, Alex Unusual is looking all sexy and sassy in this magnificent two-piece beachwear. Since leaving the BBNaija house, Alex Unusual has been making waves for herself and she can be said to be doing well. Amongst the other housemates, she has managed over time to stay relevant. Taking to the gram, she posted a series of snaps of herself. She was putting on an orange two-piece beachwear that set her lovely figure on display. Recently the reality TV star gave a list of things no amount of peer pressure can make her do. Known for her ever outspoken ways she called out the guys to wear and wash their boxers and pants once they wear. This damsel never shies away from saying her mind and she is looking like a beach queen here. See more snaps below;   View this post on Instagram   A post shared by Asogwa Alexandra A. (@alex_unusual)

  We, as humans, take the support of lies when we don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings. We wrap the actual reason up with a bunch of short-term lies to protect ourselves from the embarrassment and the other person from heartbreak. That is not the right way as it hurts the feelings of the person who is lied to later. Discovering lies instead of being confronted with the truth absolutely brings greater pain. If a guy does the same i.e. he seems disinterested in you but does not say it to your face, you can confirm it by some signs. If he does all these things or most of them, it might mean that he is not interested in you but does not want to admit it. 🍅He Ceases Trying: He is not the guy anymore that he used to be. He is not the same person who tried too hard to get your attention and get you to like him. Bringing roses, chocolates, good morning and good night texts are not there anymore and it is only you who planning dates and hangouts. If it goes like this, he might have lost t...

  Marriage is nothing if not compromise. You’re literally going to share the rest of your life with another person and no matter how well you two got along while you two were dating, you would have to bring some changes into your life after you get married. Your spouse is a jerk if he or she asks you to make drastic changes in your life, however, they aren’t being mean when they tell you to stop texting that one person. I’ll be honest with you; it isn’t easy to adjust to how someone else would have you live. You might even find them to be somewhat controlled in the start, however, there’s a fine line between being controlling and being a person who just wants the joint-life you two have, to run smoothly. So without further ado, here are some things you can’t do after marriage: 1- Not giving them a reason: Some people feel like they aren’t accountable to anyone but themselves and, you know what? They’re right. However, they’re right only up until the day they’re single because once ...